Tuesday 2 October 2012

Just a thought

"Sometimes, you just need to distance yourself from people.

If they care, they'll notice. If they don't, you know where you stand. "


- Someone Smart

:)






28 comments:

  1. SO TRUE :) BUT SOMETIMES THEY DONT CARE..

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    1. ..then they're not worth the effort :closedeyes

      the ones that care will always miss ya and try to find u :P

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    2. Unless you keep leaving them thinking they don't care when they're beyond repair themselves.

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    3. nobody's beyond repair .. we can always fix ourselves .. we just need to realize that we're broken :)

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    4. & in the meantime, everyone's left us because they thought we didn't care ;)

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    5. *hands miss HC a cup of hot green tea and a profusion of huggs *

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    6. That's when you leave them behind and keep walking Beedu :)

      Guru ji - When you care for someone and miss them, why give them a reason at all to go into hiding where you have to go looking for them? plus why would they want to do that in the first place if THEY care too?

      Miss.IQ - Misunderstandings happen in every relationship, it does not mean people don't care of give a damn :)

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  2. Or some people notice and don't do a damn thing.

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    1. It takes two to tango baby ::smoke
      We can't blame just one person for whatever, both should be held equally responsible and if the relationship ( friends, lovers, a married couple, brothers, sisters ) be it whatever is strong enough, these little things shouldn't matter much, hota hai hota hai, " itni bade bade deshon main aisi chhoti chhoti baatein toh hoti rehti hain senorita " :P

      but I do agree, sometimes one just needs their space to clear their head and think straight.

      =]

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    2. relationships require sacrifice....

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    3. @ Smoke. Yes but sometimes it isn't about who's to blame or not. One person might be wanting just that companionship while the other person is busy defending themselves and measuring blame. It's like "My heart broke", "It's not my fault". When all Person 1 wants is a hug. The reaction of Person 2 then shows what's priority. That's all. Sometimes Person 1 has to fix themselves first (alone) in order to cope with Person 2's reaction which breaks them again. It's the little things which make up the big picture. Like someone smart tells me "one day at a time" which reflects on the idea of little things being important. If the little things aren't important, then what is? When only big things are important, that's back to square one of strangers and acquaintances. Ie. a birthday card once a year, and nothing else.
      Obviously one should let go of the little things that bring negativity, but if it's within a relationship, the 'two to tango' should be able to to work it out, and not just sweep it under the rug, because one day it will become a mountain so high that neither can see the other person.

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    4. *Scratches chin and nods head in partial agreement* :B

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  3. Btw, totally random and off topic here but I wish I had a back up system like Miss.IQ does, in all of you ( Nerdyy, Layla, The uptight guest, and now Kiara ) you always make her feel better if and when she's having a bad day =]
    Kudos to all of you !!! =]

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    1. u dont need 2 wish beedu, we wud love 2 b der 4 u :)

      u just need 2 give us a chance 2 support u :D

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    2. No, no Beedu, that's not what I meant. What I meant to say was, I admire you guys =] not everyone has what you all share.

      and thank you for the kind words =] I know :)

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  4. Sorry guys, not back up system. The word I was looking for was "Support system" =]

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  5. I dnt agree to getting distant even if for a short while...maybe its separation anxiety...as if they will go away as soon as ul let go of their hand. Therefore I feel like sticking to them n making their lives miserable:DDD

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